Thanks for your interest and cautions re: my Dunes Wanderer. In classes and various sessions there is much emphasis on Professional Ethics. In recent years, due to divergent circumstances, there has been much attention paid to this professionalism both by educators and the various vulture media.
An allegation of any kind of impropriety, provable or not, is enough to put one's professional future in jeopardy,including loss of license and a smirched record. Similar to allegations made against clergypersons of betrayal of trust, and the ensuing sex abuse scandal, the various service professions have all had allegations made, and damage following, etc.
So I am well aware of boundaries and ethical practices. Dune Wanderer is safe with me because of my own personal convictions and discipline. I am not a predator. hehe I do know and observe boundaries.
After our conversations and the personal issues he has disclosed making any type of improper moves or overtures would be gross violation of my own professional ethics. It would be a betrayal of what I believe and discipline myself to maintain.
I appreciate your concerns and care for me. Thank you. I write this so you do not worry. ;-)