Posted: 23 Mar 2010 04:11 AM PDT
~~~~~ borrowed from MICHAEL at GAYTWOGETHER.COM
Not a new saying. . . .but I liked it, again, this morning.
I learned again: DO NOT JUDGE !
I made a snap judgment about someone's behaviour in an online conversation. . . .of course, without knowing what was really going on behind the scenes. I should know better: making judgments about others on the internet is the worst possible scenario, especially about someone I love. Think what I may think, however I am not the Know-All and See-All, by any means.
Then later on he told me what was going on here and now with him, etc., and I realized just how wrong I was. . . .and am! What I did learn again is that the judgment I made reveals to me my own insecurity and the judgment I have of myself in this situation.
I need to keep my eyes on this wonderful "donut" and not on the gaping holes in my own personality and self-esteem. I wish it hadn't happened but at least I kept it to myself and learned again more about myself.
So it is not a wasted morning. . . .I've enjoyed the leisure to "think my own thoughts and feel my own feelings."
I hope ALL of you are having a good day. . .feeling happy, joyous and free.