A few days ago I posted a video re: gay intimacy, love, affection. Several good comments were posted. This one from Gary Kelly raised an interesting issue about his reaction. My inquisitive mind picked up on this and I've been tossing it around at odd moments.
Gary Kelly said... Is it perhaps because in watching porn we know we we are voyeurs, even as it draws us in, as it were. Whereas maybe watching the 'affection video' we know we like a part of an intimacy where we do not belong. . . that watching a couple - str8 or gay - being intimate is something or a place we do not belong.
Can you decipher my point here? I find it hard still to verbalize what I sense. I'd really appreciate any and all insights you might have. I think what Gary tells us is an important factor. . . . and I'd like to learn from this. . .from you.