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Friday, November 13, 2009
GAYS CANNOT PLAN FUNERALS FOR THEIR PARTNERS IN RHODE ISLAND
2 comments:
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J said...
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Are we to infer that only married heterosexuals can make funeral arrangements in RI. Astounding. What makes this especially cruel is that you can't rectify the situation by giving your partner a power of attorney, which has no efficacy after its maker's death. I guess partner would have to be an executor, but the argument could be mounted that since RI rejected this legislation it would be inappropriate for a parter to make the arrangements even if he was the executor. I don't know how you can get around this nonsense other than by veto override.
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November 13, 2009 at 9:39 PM
- Unknown said...
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Unfortunately, this is what we've been dealing with for years. They should let the people decide. Instead, we have to think ahead all the time. We have to spend extra money in advance to make sure that all legal papers are filed so that what we want is adheared to instead of what our families want.
Working in the funeral biz, I've seen where the deceased family gets all the say in everything. The partner is treated like a friend or nieghbor; put at the end of the line-up or made to sit in the back.
We need to just keep plugging away. It is getting better. -
November 13, 2009 at 10:30 PM
First Posted: 11-11-09 12:31 PM | Updated: 11-11-09 02:50 PM