Hello. . . .Mind if I share a few personal - as in private - thoughts? Ready or not, here I come.
Choosing which material to include in The Dunes makes me sit still and read and think and day-dream and wonder. . .all of that nice stuff.
After reading today's article about enhancing intimacy in our lives I couldn't help wondering if anyone takes/ makes the time to do some of the self inventories hinted out and loudly suggested.
Possessed of the kind of mental machinations I have I can't NOT stop and evaluate things. . . my prying-get-to-the-roots workings grabs me and hangs until getting a satisfied word. So, yes, I spent some time thinking about stuff here. I had planned to post this yesterday. .
well, I got to it today.
I kinda think Peter is better at working on things than I am. Sometimes I don't become aware of a short-coming in my expressions of intimacy until I am caught up short-in-the-very-act and know I am lacking or not sensitive enough. . . and then embarrassingly realize I am takisenseng things for granted, or coldly didn't bother. . .
and that not only "hurts" Peter. . . I am hurt because I realize "I coulda. . I shoulda. . .but didn't" but I have grown into the ability and honesty/humility to admit to him and apologize to him for/about it.
Well, I guess you see what I am driving at. . . .;-)
And that leads me to the saying posted in the framed
I think 0f the word complete in the sense of complimenting each other. . . .
making the couple more fully themselves and
thus Peter and Justin become more one.
Does that make sense? Please. . .. jump in with
your ideas, if you will. Thaanks. . . . . justin ;-)