Monday, December 3, 2012

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Sunday, December 2, 2012



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> Subject: drinking and driving
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> I would like to share a personal experience with my closest friends about
> drinking and driving.
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> As you well know, some of us have been known to have had brushes with the
> authorities on our way home from an occasional social session over the
> years.
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> A couple of nights ago, I was out for an evening with friends and had a
> couple of cocktails and some rather nice red wine.
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> Knowing full well I may have been slightly over the limit, I did something
> I've never done before ~ I took a cab home. Sure enough, I passed a police
> road block but, since it was a cab, they waved it past.
>
> I arrived home safely without incident, which was a real surprise; as I have
> never driven a cab before and am not sure where I got it or what to do with
> it now that it's in my garage.

Supreme Court silent on gay-marriage cases

Updated 10:51 p.m., Friday, November 30, 201

The U.S. Supreme Court was unexpectedly silent Friday about whether it will take its first look at same-sex marriage, in cases involving California's Proposition 8 and a law banning federal recognitionand benefits for married same-sex couples.
The court could take action Monday, and among the possibilities are an order that would clear the way for gay and lesbian couples to marry in California within the week. Friday's inaction, however, could also be a signal that the justices need more time to plot their course on the issue.


Read more: http://www.sfgate.com/nation/article/Supreme-Court-silent-on-gay-marriage-cases-4081381.php#ixzz2DuBFTWh4

". . .with liberty and justice for all. . ." yepper



Michigan Teacher Suspended for Letting Student Play Gay-Themed Song in Class

A performing arts teacher in South Lyon, Mich., was suspended for three days after she allowed a student to play hip-hop artist Macklemore's song about being gay, called "Same Love," in her class last week.

BY SUNNIVIE BRYDUM

NOVEMBER 29 2012 3:45 PM ET

A Michigan teacher was suspended for three days — two without pay — after she allowed a student to play a hip-hop song about being gay in her performing arts class. 
Susan Johnson, who teaches performing arts at Centennial Middle School in South Lyon, Mich., said one of her students asked to play Seattle-based hip-hop artist Macklemore's "Same Love" in class. The song — created to support Washington's Referendum 74, whichestablished marriage equality— follows the life journey of a gay man as he deals with coming out, finding love, and bullying, harassment, and name-calling. 
After listening to the track, Johnson told Detroit's Fox 2 News that she felt the song spoke to timely issues of tolerance and bullying, and would prove meaningful to her students.
"This is one of the things in my school that we're trying to practice," Johnson told Fox 2, "and we're trying to instill in our students — is tolerance to diversity, and also [against] bullying."
But another student in Johnson's class was offended by the message of the song, and complained to school administrators. Centennial Middle School officials wouldn't speak on the record, but Johnson offered paperwork she says the district gave her explaining her suspension. That paperwork claims the song had controversial content, including homosexuality, religion, political views, and a sexual slur. 
The song does use the word "faggot," but only in the context of calling out passive reactions to hate speech. 
"If I was gay, I would think hip-hop hates me," sings Macklemore. "Have you read the YouTube comments lately? / 'Man, that's gay,' gets dropped on the daily / We become so numb to what we're saying / A culture founded from oppression / Yeah we don't have acceptance for him? / Call each other 'faggot' behind the keys of a message board."
Johnson said she was shocked by her sudden suspension. "I'm very disappointed in the bias, the bigotry that I feel that they're really hiding behind," Johnson told Fox 2. "I really love my kids and I never want to hurt them, but I also know that there's a lot of bullying and there's a lot of gay bashing and racial issues going on in our country, and I want the kids to feel comfortable in my class no matter who they are."

Thursday, November 29, 2012

Richard sent this along to me. . . I share it with you all.  It is beautiful!  Glad to share it.

Thanks, Richard.  Beautiful of you to send this along.  Much appreciated. . . . . justin


Justin,

Just in case you might be thinking about getting hitched some day, here’s a bit of beautiful inspiration.  It had me bawling like a baby.

Richard


Ethical Dating. . . part 1



Posted: 29 Nov 2012 06:20 AM PST
4896804f8d731sOne of the most common complaints I receive from single gay men about the dating scene is their frustration and pain of wearing “the battle scars” of mistreatment at the hands of other men they’ve met for potential friendship and dating.

“Why doesn’t he call me back when he says he will?” “Why did he say he was interested and then I find him online cruising for other guys?” “I found out Mr. Wonderful was married!” “These guys are so rude and crass in those Internet chatrooms!” 

These are just a few of the many scenarios described by many singles who report feeling jaded by the actions of their fellow gay brothers who have slighted them or made them feel “less than” as they navigate their way through the dating jungle.

It is a curious thing to ponder how a disenfranchised group like gay men, who have historically suffered discrimination from a homophobic culture, could treat each other with such disdain and cruelty when we are all essentially in the same boat trying to find love, happiness, and a place we can call our own in this world.

But it doesn’t have to be this way! We don’t have to project and mirror the same homophobia we’ve been programmed with at each other as weapons.

Pooling together as a group with a collective empathy to provide support and understanding for what it’s like to be a gay man and single in the millennium can go a long way toward improving the social climate and self-esteem of our community and the men that comprise it.

There are many possible reasons why we treat other with the degree of misconduct that we do in the dating world. Some men are acting-out internalized homophobia. Others do so purely out of bad manners and poor social skills. But more often than not, many men are afraid to be direct and honest out of fear of hurting the other person’s feeling; they therefore take “the easy way out” by disappearing off the face of the earth or ignoring a dating prospect who they don’t particularly have an interest in pursuing further. While perhaps well-intentioned, this only serves to hurt the recipient more and this type of immaturity can backfire and begin to develop a negative reputation and image of the man doing the “ditching.”

We cannot change other people; we only have responsibility over our own thoughts, feelings, and actions. Therefore, we each as individuals can begin taking stock of our own personal values and ethics to determine if we are carrying ourselves in alignment with who we want to be.

If there is a discrepancy between who we are and who we want to become, this is where we then want to channel our energies toward evolving into that man of integrity who treats himself and others with dignity and respect.

( Part Two - Continued Tomorrow )

© Dr. Brian Rzepczynski, The Gay Love Coach
The suggestions and feedback offered in this column are but one perspective of multiple approaches to dealing with problems or challenges. Information provided in articles and advice columns should not be used as a substitute for coaching or therapy when these services are needed. None of this information should be your only source when making important life decisions. This information should not be used for diagnosing or treating a particular problem, nor should it take the place of a consultation with a trained professional. It is your responsibility to consult a professional prior to making any life decisions.
Dr. Brian Rzepczynski, contributing author to GAYTWOGETHER, is one of the leading love coaches for the gay community. As a licensed dating and relationship coach, Dr. Brian Rzepczynski, DHS, MSW has over 18 years experience as a psychotherapist and life coach specializing in helping GLBT individuals and couples develop and maintain successful and fulfilling intimate relationships. He holds a doctorate degree in human sexuality from the Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality and a master’s degree in clinical social work from Western Michigan University. He also runs a successful private therapy practice, Personal Victory Counseling, Inc.http://thegaylovecoach.com


thanks BRIAN and MICHAEL@gaytwogether.com

Interesting. . . . . .;-)

Hello All. . . .

I noticed this addy on the my editorial page for the blog which gives
the blogger various stats, etc.

This one appeared the other day. . .and each day a dozen or so guys are accessing my blog via this addy. . .Cool. 

http://www.bestgaybloggers.com/justin-dunes/

I am flattered and pleased, of course.  Encouraging to see it. ;-)

Thanks. . . 

justin