Police have opened a criminal investigation in the suicide death of
Buffalo, N.Y., 14-year-old Jamey Rodemeyer, who was bullied online with
gay slurs for more than a year.
The teen's parents, friends and even Lady Gaga, who was his idol, have
expressed outrage about what they say was relentless torment on social
networking websites.
The Amherst Police Department's Special Victims Unit has said it will
determine whether to charge some students with harassment,
cyber-harassment or hate crimes. Police said three students in
particular might have been involved. Jamey was a student at Heim Middle
School.
Jamey had just started his freshman year at Williamsville North High
School. (Both Amherst and Williamsville are just outside Buffalo.) But
the bullying had begun during middle school, according to his parents.
He had told family and friends that he had endured hateful comments in
school and online, mostly related to his sexual orientation.
Jamey was found dead outside his home Sunday morning, but Amherst police would not release any details on how he killed himself.
"The special victims unit is looking into the circumstances prior to his
death," Captain Michael Camilleri said. "We are not sure if there is
anything criminal or not."
No bullying laws exist in New York State, according to Camilleri, so
police would have to determine whether aggravated harassment charges fit
this case. Whether suspects would be tried in juvenile court would
depend on whether the alleged bully was 16 or older, he said.
Police said they had spoken with Williamsville School Superintendent
Scott G. Martzloff, who has pledged the district's cooperation.
"We've heard that there were some specific students, an identifiable
group of students, that had specifically targeted Jamey, or had been
picking on him for a period of time," Police Chief John C. Askey told
the Buffalo News.
Jamey sent out many signals on social networking sites that he was
struggling with his sexuality, even though he encouraged others on the
It Gets Better project website
YouTube to fight off the bullies.
He killed himself this weekend after posting an online farewell.
Lady Gaga weighed in on the situation via twitter: "Bullying must become illegal. It is a hate crime," she tweeted.
"I am meeting with our President. I will not stop fighting. This must
end. Our generation has the power to end it. Trend it
#MakeALawForJamey," the singer posted to
twitter last night.
Students had been posting hate comments with gay references on his Formspring account, a website that allows anonymous posts.
"JAMIE IS STUPID, GAY, FAT ANND [sic] UGLY. HE MUST DIE!" one post said,
according to local reports. Another read, "I wouldn't care if you died.
No one would. So just do it :) It would make everyone WAY more
happier!"
Friends reported the bullying to guidance counselors. But everyone, including his mother, thought he had grown stronger.
His death coincides with a
national summit
this week sponsored by the U.S. Department of Education in Washington,
D.C., an effort to stem the toll of bullying school children.
Speaking at the second annual Federal Partners in Bullying Prevention
Summit were the parents of Justin Aaberg, a gay 15-year-old from
Champlain, Minn., who hanged himself after being bullied. The parents,
Tammy and Shawn Aaberg,
said that one form of the bullying came from a student religious group
whose members told Justin that he was going to hell because he was gay.
"Justin was a smiley, happy boy who loved to play his cello," said his
parents. "School systems need to do more to protect LGBT students from
bullying, and not turn their back on them because of their sexual
orientation."
Rodemeyer's suicide also sets off a somber beginning to LGBT History Month in October.
"Jamey's suicide is a tragic reminder of the vulnerability of gay
teens," said Malcolm Lazin, founder and executive director of the
Equality Forum, which focuses on LGBT civil rights and education.
"They are bullied and marginalized," he said. "While some may say that
Jamey took his life, it is unrelenting homophobia that murdered him."
Jamey's mother, Tracy Rodemeyer, who did not return calls from ABCNews.com, told the
Buffalo News
that her son had been questioning his sexuality and had expressed
thoughts of suicide, but had also been encouraged by good friends and
was a "happy" and "strong" teen.
Friends described him as caring and friendly, and he had been seeking help from a social worker and therapist.
According to the National Center for Educational Statistics, 28 percent
of students aged 12 to 18 reported that they were bullied in school
during the 2008-2009 school year. Bullying also slows down as children
get older from a high of 39 percent of all sixth graders to 20 percent
of high school seniors.
The most overwhelming form of bullying is done through ridicule, insult
and rumors, rather than physical aggression, according to the report.
The rate of victimization among lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender
(LGBT) students has remained constant between 1999 and 2009, the latest
date for which there are statistics, according to the National Climate
Survey conducted by the
Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education Network (GLSEN).
Parents and educators say they face significant challenges in stemming
LGBT bullying, particularly at schools where there are fewer resources
and support groups such as gay-straight alliances.
"We have seen some positive signs in available resources and supportive
educators and society is moving in a good direction," GLSEN spokesman
Daryl Presgraves said. "But it's still very difficult to be an LGBT
youth in school."
In May, after coming out to friends, Jamey posted a YouTube video on the new online site,
It Gets Better Project,
which provides testimony from adults and celebrities to reassure
troubled and potentially suicidal LGBT youth that life improves as they
get older.
He wrote: "Love yourself and you're set. ... I promise you, it will get better."
