tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4517388058225414110.post8873791318302728463..comments2023-06-05T09:55:27.129-04:00Comments on JUSTIN DUNES: JustinO'Sheahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07379283329949646000noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4517388058225414110.post-2172663859578604502011-08-13T01:39:51.847-04:002011-08-13T01:39:51.847-04:00Lol....so that's what happened is it?
Potentia...Lol....so that's what happened is it?<br />Potential partners had a vision of this old fruit (me) in the future.... when I'm older......then it is no wonder I'm on my own....haha!GreginAdelaidehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11700327727868020300noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4517388058225414110.post-30457422983281584362011-08-12T20:52:24.224-04:002011-08-12T20:52:24.224-04:00Greg: Of course I've changed in the last ten o...Greg: Of course I've changed in the last ten or twenty years. I was better looking then hehe. But only moderately brilliant.<br /><br />I have a feeling that falling in love on impulse is not such a great idea. Maybe lovers should think like the gardener who plants a seed. He sees the seed, but his vision is of the tree and the fruits it will bear in the coming years.Gary Kellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17947146717481835071noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4517388058225414110.post-54541971668425807862011-08-12T09:18:50.441-04:002011-08-12T09:18:50.441-04:00Gary, are you the same person you were 10 or 20 ye...Gary, are you the same person you were 10 or 20 years ago?<br />I think not.<br />Essentially yes, but emotionally, experiencially, developmentally?<br /><br />No, I'm sure you aren't.<br /><br />But, if you pick or are picked by someone to be in a realtionship with, then, as you say, grow old together, then with luck (pot or otherwise) both of you could work it out together and stay in synch.<br /><br />Communication is the key. We all know it....and all neglect it at our peril.<br /><br />Communication is key to all relationships, as has been so well argued and presented to us by Obe-One-Oshea in his pieces on this blog over these recentyears.<br /><br />And I reckon that the person who write "It's better...." must have loved. It was written by someone who had been bitten and lost. ...or he was one evil cynic. Ha!GreginAdelaidehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11700327727868020300noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4517388058225414110.post-10324607126138202182011-08-11T19:46:01.776-04:002011-08-11T19:46:01.776-04:00I'm not sure I understand all this relationshi...I'm not sure I understand all this relationship business. How can anyone be sure that the person they love today will be the same person in 10 or 20 years time? How can anyone commit to a situation with an uncertain future?<br /><br />Society is riddled with step fathers and step mothers and step brothers and sisters, and single parent families and divorcees and adoptees and whatever else.<br /><br />I guess it's pot luck. Some people are lucky enough to happily grow old together. So it gets down to the question "Do I take a chance or not?"<br /><br />Hmmm. Maybe there's something to be said for the old adage, "It's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all."<br /><br />But then you have to ask yourself, who wrote that saying? A person who once loved and lost, or a person who had never loved? Hehe.Gary Kellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17947146717481835071noreply@blogger.com