tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4517388058225414110.post7994961536731224111..comments2023-06-05T09:55:27.129-04:00Comments on JUSTIN DUNES: More Than Just Friends?. . . . . .Part TwoJustinO'Sheahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07379283329949646000noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4517388058225414110.post-40477887911642676842013-01-17T21:19:35.095-05:002013-01-17T21:19:35.095-05:00I'm not as old as you Gary, but certainly not ...I'm not as old as you Gary, but certainly not "young" in body.... however, what you say is interesting.<br /><br />I've never had a over-riding need to partner off.<br />Hook up, yes, partner, no.<br /><br />I guess I could have, possibly should have, but did not have hte need. I guess I've always been happy with myself, happy to get on with this short journey, adventure that is live rather than be sitting around depressed, yearning, looking to that elusive "someone" i just got on with life and ENJOYED myself... I still do...with the same passion, perhaps an increasing passion because when you get 'over the hill' you realise that there aint much time left, so you'd better make it count...and you'd better be happy with yourself as the main objective I guess.<br />Luckily, I am.<br />It seems no-one else was though....heehee!<br /><br />But I do believe in positive thinking, I've always been a positive person, if things are shit, change them, get rid of them, or if you can't, then ignore them.<br />Move on. After all, we are here for but a brief time....better to make it a flash than just a brown stain.<br />GreginAdelaidehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11700327727868020300noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4517388058225414110.post-16817705859064279512013-01-16T19:38:47.168-05:002013-01-16T19:38:47.168-05:00So here I yam in my late 60s reading about all thi...So here I yam in my late 60s reading about all this relationship stuff on The Dunes and asking myself, "Is there any old flame in my life that I would like to rekindle?" And the answer is no. What about a future flame? The answer is still no.<br /><br />It's all pretty weird really cos I spent so many years believing that life without a partner was pointless. Now my thinking is just the opposite. I look back and think how blissfully simple my life could have been if I'd always been the way I am now (without the wrinkles).<br /><br />It's when I finally gave up the chase, that I really began to get to know myself. My confidence improved and so did my self esteem. Before that, I thought I was incomplete.<br /><br />So I guess there's a lotta truth in the saying that you are what you think you are. :)Gary Kellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17947146717481835071noreply@blogger.com