tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4517388058225414110.post7675330010195138385..comments2023-06-05T09:55:27.129-04:00Comments on JUSTIN DUNES: RIGHT? WRONG?JustinO'Sheahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07379283329949646000noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4517388058225414110.post-4981634224886131802012-10-30T18:58:07.964-04:002012-10-30T18:58:07.964-04:00GARY. . .thank you "for the wisdom of the age...GARY. . .thank you "for the wisdom of the ages". . .this is an excellent, simple, direct answer.<br /><br />Thank you, Dr Kelly. ;-)JustinO'Sheahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07379283329949646000noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4517388058225414110.post-66462751047876743122012-10-30T18:51:36.352-04:002012-10-30T18:51:36.352-04:00====== Justin ducks quickly. . . out of danger fro...====== Justin ducks quickly. . . out of danger from attacker. . . .LOL ==========JustinO'Sheahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07379283329949646000noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4517388058225414110.post-2695734734222929082012-10-30T18:47:16.271-04:002012-10-30T18:47:16.271-04:00If I'd asked you 10 or 20 years ago what your ...If I'd asked you 10 or 20 years ago what your life would be like today, what would your answer have been?<br /><br />When my mother told me she and dad had been married almost 50 years when he died, could either of them have known that's how it would be when they were first married?<br /><br />Long term relationships don't start out that way. They end up that way. Why?<br /><br />As I see it, a relationship has a better chance of becoming long term if two people share long-term goals.<br /><br />I suspect the love two people share at first is different to they love they share in ten or twenty years.<br /><br />Despite what they say about life - that it's a journey and not a destination - it seems to me that those who have a common destination are more likely to travel the same road.Gary Kellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17947146717481835071noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4517388058225414110.post-35667633258887164972012-10-30T18:47:12.674-04:002012-10-30T18:47:12.674-04:00Well, Bro, this will be the beginning of some sort...Well, Bro, this will be the beginning of some sort of reply. . . First, no easy answers because this is about human beings / persons. . . so any kind of answer will be personal to to the two people involved. [2] Each person is different from the other; different also from the on-lookers. [3] only the two guys can give any kind of answers. THEY have to make the decision wither they match/complement one another.<br />[4] Outsiders may have hints about or ideas something may be askew. . but in the end only the two guys themselves can decide if they can or should make a go of things. Etc. etc.<br />A therapist is not going to TELL you what to do or how to do it. Coopsta, if you are I were in a therapeutic relationship, we would both suffer severe frustration. ;-) because you seem to think the therapist solves the problems. Not so; not so. The therapist can help you to determine, see, accept, recognize there is a problem here. .. I might be able to help you here. . .note I say HELP. .. I do not DO that for you. YOU have to recognize, own, accept there is a problem. . .only then can YOU begin to resolve it. The therapist HELPS from the sidelines --very much involved -- but the therapist does NOT solve/resolve the problem. . YOU do that.<br /><br />I anticipated your problem with my question "Do you?. . .DO YOU?" Only you can tell me that answer. YOU are the only one who knows the answer.<br /><br />Next. . . .? ;-))JustinO'Sheahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07379283329949646000noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4517388058225414110.post-54886226931605961152012-10-30T01:31:10.730-04:002012-10-30T01:31:10.730-04:00Are you. . .?
;-)Are you. . .?<br /><br />;-)JustinO'Sheahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07379283329949646000noreply@blogger.com