tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4517388058225414110.post6305394237126621544..comments2023-06-05T09:55:27.129-04:00Comments on JUSTIN DUNES: Should We ShackUp ? part 1.JustinO'Sheahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07379283329949646000noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4517388058225414110.post-2867810456569680032010-11-03T22:42:40.231-04:002010-11-03T22:42:40.231-04:00...as I mentioned, sharing the same bed worked wit......as I mentioned, sharing the same bed worked with my partner. Single again for three years now, I don't know if I will attain that same compatibility again. So, if it were different...me or my partner appreciating more to be in different beds, I guess it would be one of those areas of compromise. <br /><br />I love to cuddle, and reach-over in the midnight hour and know he's there!<br /><br />:)JCinmeforeverhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14033591536046634983noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4517388058225414110.post-32406896153273272992010-11-02T09:08:00.470-04:002010-11-02T09:08:00.470-04:00All things considered, I know I am not ready to mo...All things considered, I know I am not ready to move in with Peter. . .or he with me. ;-)<br /><br />I still like my space . . . I like to crawl into bed alone, on occasion, with space to think my own thoughts and feel my own feelings. The "space thing" will likely always be a part of needs, but not enough to keep me from living with Peter - if that is "in the cards", better "in our hearts".<br /><br />Those of you who live with spouse/partner/lover. . . .do you have separate bedrooms which you use on occasion? I don't mean just when you've had a spat or nose bent outta shape. Like two play-pens as it were. . .and then one for sleep?<br /><br />I know it is diffucult to sleep with one who tosses and turns, does gymnastics in his sleep, etc. LOL<br /><br />Or with someone who cries in his dreams. .BUT .feels good to just roll over, cuddle him safely and tell him "everything is okay..ssssshhh. . it's alright, honey, no one can get at you. . . I am here! "<br /><br />I think I must be ready for a lot of adjustments even before moving in. . ..? or is it "learn by doing?"<br /><br />Thanks for any and all input.<br /><br /> justinJustinO'Sheahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07379283329949646000noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4517388058225414110.post-43045719493490011102010-11-02T00:20:58.628-04:002010-11-02T00:20:58.628-04:00Oh! What a tangled web this can be for some....
F...Oh! What a tangled web this can be for some....<br /><br />For me it was methodical in conversation well be for the actual 'co-habitation'. It made it a bit smoother of a transition from carrying a bag to spend the night or weekend at each others establishment. Methodical and reality proved to be two different things when 'He' moved in. But, the one thing that was exact, and I may never find it again, was the compatibility of sleeping patterns. You know, a mover or shaker or one who stays in one spot most of the night...I'm the latter. And so was 'He'. We both liked cuddling, being in the 'B-day suite', neither snored or drewl, and even though the occasional explosion under the sheet would occur, all was well to a 97% + or - a tick. I'm not sure if that will ever happen again, but I hope it does. That to me is probably the most important. All other things while your awake, would definitely call for a 'give and take' compromise. As for the thought, 'should we ShackUp? I think it's in most people's best interest to at least make a trial run of it!JCinmeforeverhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14033591536046634983noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4517388058225414110.post-41040768569963743462010-11-01T20:40:40.502-04:002010-11-01T20:40:40.502-04:00It's true: you never really know a person unti...It's true: you never really know a person until you live under the same roof. That's when you notice things like skid marks in the loo and the toothpaste tube being squeezed from the middle.Gary Kellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17947146717481835071noreply@blogger.com