tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4517388058225414110.post5571158867449441876..comments2023-06-05T09:55:27.129-04:00Comments on JUSTIN DUNES: Enhancing Intimacy. . .Part ThreeJustinO'Sheahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07379283329949646000noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4517388058225414110.post-8548843451863575122014-03-21T23:02:53.602-04:002014-03-21T23:02:53.602-04:00When I was 7, I was on the toilet
at school, Anot...When I was 7, I was on the toilet<br />at school, Another boy crawled up the stall I was in and said, you have a small pee pee. I have never forgotten the words.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4517388058225414110.post-43360276366792064442014-03-21T21:13:19.096-04:002014-03-21T21:13:19.096-04:00In my later current life I do wonder what it would...In my later current life I do wonder what it would be like if I'd found a partner to share everything with. <br /><br />In my earlier life it was not a priority, life was full and fast enough for me not to wonder, or seek affection. <br /><br />I did "wander" though...yuk yuk, but it was only a physical thing I guess.<br /><br />Then I met someone I wanted to share every minute with, but he was straight, and while he does remain a firm friend I sometimes crave a closer permanence, not the physical ...although that would be nice.<br />A soul mate is what I need, one who is near me 24.<br /><br />But I guess I was so busy in my own life and adventures and did not have that strong desire to "couple", to pair off and breed that heteros seem to have....so here I sit, "on the shelf"<br /><br />Regrets? No, just a wondering at what it would be like.... and how it could be.<br /><br />Too late? No, but unlikely to happen, as I don't go looking. <br /><br />I never had that strong drive and desire to partner off. A pity, but there it is, for what it's worth.<br /><br />Yeah, you caught me.... it is a sort of regret, maybe.... something I said I don't have, perhaps something that I deny?<br />Whatever.<br /><br />Ah well, the sun is shining.GreginAdelaidehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11700327727868020300noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4517388058225414110.post-88381014575382973162014-03-21T09:42:56.043-04:002014-03-21T09:42:56.043-04:00An awful curse to carry,for any guy!
Might seem th...An awful curse to carry,for any guy!<br />Might seem the opposite prevails. Tho' I've never conducted a survey or made scientific inspections. . LOL <br />many guys today are not circumcized. . . Has anyone noticed? hahahaaa<br />(don't raise your hands all at once. . nyuk..nyuk..nyuk)<br />It is a sensitive issue. . that appendage. . .;-)) JustinO'Sheahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07379283329949646000noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4517388058225414110.post-66744464129222715272014-03-21T00:40:22.984-04:002014-03-21T00:40:22.984-04:00Dammit, I just made a comment and my modem disconn...Dammit, I just made a comment and my modem disconnected. Anyway, Jimm, I've been thinking about the same topic lately and, like you, grew up with feelings of inadequacy that prevented me from giving or taking intimacy... with both sexes. <br /><br />It began at puberty when my being uncircumcised was deemed unnatural by my cut mates, one of whom told me my penis was a reject and that I would never father children. I had no one to discuss the matter with so I believed him. As a result I developed a huge complex.<br /><br />Later, when I realized he was wrong, I still carried the baggage throughout my adulthood, convinced I wasn't up to speed with other guys.<br /><br />Fortunately, it no longer matters. Intimacy is not something on my agenda.<br /><br />Gary Kellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17947146717481835071noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4517388058225414110.post-85397171969939114492014-03-21T00:32:48.288-04:002014-03-21T00:32:48.288-04:00I've been thinking about this topic too, Jimm....I've been thinking about this topic too, Jimm. I've been unable to give or take intimacy all my life, with both sexes. I'm sure it relates to feelings of inadequacy. However, it no longer matters... I have no desire to swing from a chandelier these days.<br /><br />I developed a major complex as a kid when all my mates were circumcised and I wasn't. One of them pronounced mine as a reject. "You'll never be able to make babies with that," he said. I had no one to discuss the matter with so I accepted it as fact.<br /><br />But even afterwards when I realized he was wrong, I still carried that baggage around, convinced that I wasn't up to speed with other guys.Gary Kellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17947146717481835071noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4517388058225414110.post-28048454748444816402014-03-20T20:51:14.019-04:002014-03-20T20:51:14.019-04:00fears of not being “good enough”
I figure this wo...fears of not being “good enough”<br /><br />I figure this would be at the top of my long list. Perhaps i should say, fear of not feeling equal. <br /><br />Also, i fear silence. When i run out of things to say. THAT silence. jimmhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13114255434616727257noreply@blogger.com